Dorothy D Stover

Love Coach * Lightworker

I am an Intuitive and Medium who helps people connect to the Love Energy after sexual trauma.


I am an example of how love and a beautiful life of stepping into your purpose awaits you after sexual trauma. I war raped at 16 years old not far from my family’s home. I felt guilt, shame, fear, I had destructive behaviors and patterns and I couldn’t keep it together in a romantic relationship. I knew I wanted a deeper love. I also knew I wasn’t going to get there through anyone else doing the work. I had to roll up up sleeves, and find my way forward.

It took almost a decade until I saw real progress. I learned a lot in that first decade of healing; to not give up, that love always shows up and to follow the light.

The second decade of healing I began stepping into my gifts as a love coach. I teach and guide about love and relationships using years of experience, study and my intuitive gifts. I also use my Clairvoyance (see), Clairaudience (hear) and Clairsentience (feel) gifts for intuitive readings with clients all over the world. I have been in tune with the spirit world since I was a little girl as well as obsessed with love and relationships, which in turn fueled my love education and study to use my gifts. I wanted to know why people do what they do and also what the best practices are that lead to a relationship where you feel connected and grow to be your best self. I have a strong desire to help empower others to love fully.

Because of my traumatic past, this has helped me refocus my life into transforming myself and helping others heal and transform themselves.

In my 20s, I began writing about love, dating and relationships and working with clients with their love lives. I found every challenge in life, love and relationships stems from a lack of loving one’s self and feeling comfortable in your own skin.

I have worked with clients on the whole spectrum of love. From the foundation of love, which is self-love. A matchmaker, helping men and women find romantic love. Helping individuals and couples in relationships gain strength through loving themselves and being there for each other on their love journey. What a great adventure this has been!

I am always searching, experimenting and learning with different healing techniques. I have traveled to Rishikesh India to become a yoga instructor. I have studied Charkas with some of the greats to learn about our energetic system within and around our bodies. I have studied different meditation techniques that allow for a deeper self-realization that is not all about sitting for hours, but a slow unveiling of one's inner self connecting with one's higher self... it's not as complicated as you might think.  I have deepened my spiritual and intuitive gifts, learning mediumship and intuitive readings. I have studied Reiki and I am working towards Reiki master. All of this with the intention of healing myself, then helping others on their own healing, transformation journey.

Now in my third decade of learning from sexual trauma and I can say I have never felt better and I love seeing the transformations from my clients. I help people find the love within themselves, move past shame into healthy vulnerability and intimacy for real deep romantic connections.

I use my intuitive and medium gifts to help give my clients focus, guidance and connect to the Love Energy for a greater healing and love within their lives.

If you would like to work with me there are a few different ways. The first is to join The LoveLetter. This is a free weekly newsletter where you’ll receive more love into your email box as well as $10 off a reading or healing. Join HERE.

Another way for us to work together is through my online school called The Love School. I offer the following courses; Healing After Sexual Trauma, Dating After Sexual Trauma and Love after Sexual Trauma. Enroll Here.

One of my favorite ways to work with clients is through Intuitive/Medium Readings and healings. During the intuitive readings we connect with your higher self, your spirit team as well as look at all areas of your life. During your healing sessions we release trapped emotions, patterns and help you operate from the highest energy level, love. To learn more and book your reading or healing, Click Here.

Life After Sexual Trauma Free Healing Guide

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I want to help you Embark on a journey that will take you from victim to thriver. I have developed a beautiful healing guide that will help you Find the strength within, heal and move forward in life with more love after you've experienced sexual trauma in your life. There is a beautiful life ahead of you. Please let me help you experience it fully.

Healing after sexual trauma course

Healing After Sexual Trauma

Healing After Sexual Trauma is an eight week course that takes you through healing shame, anger and other emotions one feels in the aftermath of Sexual Trauma. We end up being able to trust, love ourselves and love others.

Dating After Sexual Trauma Course

Dating After Sexual Trauma

This course is dating after sexual trauma. The course will take you through what it looks and feels like to be in a healthy dating environment as well as a healthy relationship. How to establish healthy boundaries. The course also takes the student through like step by step helping you find solid matches, screen them, perfect date formula and what to do after a date that leads to a committed and connected partnership while also honoring yourself after sexual trauma.

love after sexual trauma course

Love After Sexual Trauma

Love After Sexual Trauma is a three month online course where we really delve in deep to self-love so that we have thriving relationship with ourselves and with all those around us. We do this through tested self-love practices, love and relationship best practices I have all used with my clients to see them thrive in life and in love after sexual trauma. Go from victim to thriver.


Testimonial from Stephanie of forEra
Dorothy has deep experiences as a love expert and helps me by listening and coaching me. She is also a pleasure to work with always being optimistic and calm. She’s helped me through some tough times and helped me get to the light at the end of the tunnel.
— -Elizabeth, Boston Ma
Testimonial from Donna Elle
Dorothy is a passionate and experienced matchmaker who takes all the work out of dating and makes dating fun! Working with Dorothy, I have a healthy optimism that I will meet quality men.
— -Susan, Nashville TN USA
Testimonial from Erin of The Mind Body Project
A genuine, intelligent easy to talk to person who wants to help you find the love in your life. She feels like one of my friends who can help me get to where I want to be. Plus, her voice is so soothing!
— -Carrie, New Hampshire USA
Testimonial from Becky Hudson
Dorothy pays attention to everything I say, listening intently and asks the tough questions to get to the core of what my answers are. She is fun and heartfelt, as well as light-hearted, meaning she is easy to speak and work with.
— Kaila, Los Angles CA USA

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