Dorothy Stover Love Lesson Episode 26 on the poem Dont Quit. Which inspires to keep going when facing life's challenges.Read More
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I'm ok if you make fun of me for this love lesson!
All jokes aside, perhaps you feel like you're the gardener in the relationship or maybe you feel like you're the flower. Either way, you don't know how to break out of this pattern or you don't want to. Maybe this will give you permission to do so. If you have a harmonious relationship, sometimes it means having your partner take care of you or you taking taking care of your partner.
It's important to do and be both at some point in your relationship. Think back to a time when you really needed a friend and they were there for you no questions asked. Think back to a time you were there for someone no questions asked. It feels good. It's important. And that's community. Your partner is just one part of your community. Take care of each other. Tend to each other. Give each other what they need. And of course, don't forget about your needs.
Here's this week's Love Lesson Episode. Love Lessons Ep 24 Gardener & Flower
Sending love to you today!
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Your health should be your number 1 priority. If you don’t have your health, you don’t have anything. This includes your mental, emotional, Spiritual, financial and physical health. Everything is connected. If you feel good, those around you feel good. If you feel like crap, are moody or unstable those around you are effected. So, if you’re mental, emotional, spiritual, financial and physical health are not at a 100% most likely your Love life isn’t either. Side note. Relationship are not always in harmony all the time.
Don’t fret, it takes self care; checking in with yourself and doing the work that is needed to make sure you’re in good health. It means making yourself a priority. It means being selfish every now and then. It means saying no when you want to say no and asking for something when you need it. It means doing what you need to do even when others don’t agree or find it odd. How many of you want to eat better or work out but have others speaking out against it? I certainly know from experience, I had a mentor say to me years ago, “when are you going to gain weight?” I had been eating really well, exercising and taking care of myself. I felt amazing! But this person was insecure with themselves and most people don’t like others to change. Change scares people. And taking care of yourself is very scary to many. Do it! No matter what others think of you or say. Do what you need to do to feel at your best and healthy self. Let others deal with their insecurities .
Which brings us to today's Love Lesson, Your Health Effects Your Relationship. Do whatever it takes to take care of health.
Click here to watch today's Love Lesson 23 - Your Health Effects Your Relationship
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Before the LoveBlog, I used to have a weekly column called Freaky Friday on the Nantucket Chronicle. I loved when people would write in asking their love and sex questions. Sex is so taboo. We are suppose to keep everything so quiet. And while I of course love mystery and I believe we don’t have everything, I do believe we are doing ourselves a disservice by not having an open dialog when it comes to sexuality. Because we do not have an open dialog about sex, I see people acting out and not understanding and respecting sex and their own sexual selves.
Hands down the best sex is sex that includes love and connection. It could be the connection to ourselves or a partner. When love and connection are involved with sex, the world makes sense. We are better humans. We have better relationships. We have a healthier self.
Today’s love lesson episode is a little tip for unleashing your sexual goddess and two of my favorite sex toys. I love love love these toys!
Full disclosure I am not being paid for my review. I love these toys so much, I have since gotten rid of all of my other toys. These are just so perfect!!!
If you would like the three tips on how to unleash your sexual goddess, click here.
In a month or so I will be launching my first course of my love school. The course will be a love 101 class, helping you gain a deeper relationship with your self and others so that you can attracted a deeper romantic relationship.If you would like to be notified of when these Love Lessons and the launch of the love school, plus I give special treatment to those whom are subscribed to the Love Letter, join here, http://eepurl.com/bFrkfn. It's Free, the way love should be. It takes about 30 seconds to sign up. Peace, Love & Hugs! And thank you for reading/watching/sharing and checking in ❤️.
Link below for today's Love Lesson Episode
Love Lessons Ep #9 Unleashing your sexual goddess & my favorite sex toys https://youtu.be/7gkSEf4Ud5U
My great grandfather Murphy said "Love is a choice. Everyday you wake up and choose love". I like to think I am carrying his words on. I like to think I choose love everyday. I don't always. He was talking about marriage and making that choice of love in your marriage and that it needs to be made everyday. I have extended that to make the love choice everyday in every eay, not just romantic love. It's not always easy but when I do connect with my heart, I'm happier. I see for my clients that when they come from this space, they too are happier.
Do you think you could make the love choice or at least strive to? When you're at the grocery store and someone takes your spot, will you choose love? When someone posts something on social media and it offends you, will you choose love? When someone you love doesn't love you the way you want to be loved, will you choose love?
There are lots of examples, challenging examples of choosing love. It's not always the easiest choice to make but it's the one that leads to a better world and a happier self.
It's also ok if you're like me and sometimes you stumble, yell and choose fear. We are human. I keep reminding myself after I stumble to realign myself with who I really am in my heart, mind and body...and that is love. And so are you. You are love. To view today's Love Lesson Video please click below.
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Today's Love Lesson Video
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