Dorothy Stover

Everything I do in life, I do for Love.

The Love Writer. Entrepreneur. Health Lover. Everything I do in life, I do for love.

LoveBlog - Are You Living Someone Else's Life?

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 By all senses of the word, you are living your life. You're doing you right? But the question I am asking is, are you living someone else's life?  And What I mean by this, are you following someone else's rules? Are you doing what someone else told you was the best way to live or be? Have you adopted a norm than is not your own?  Essentially, being someone else's normal. 
 I think it's important to ask these questions because we (and when I say we I include myself) can find ourselves going through the motions, living in a routine or a feeling as though we are in a rut. We think "well this is the way life is supposed to be, isn't it?"  "This is how it has always been done". "I was told to be good or happy I need to do this". 
 
 Do you ever stop to think, that way of living", the one you've adopted is someone else's life?  
 I have. I have found that because I don't want to be judged or because it seems easier, or safer, this is what or how I will live my life. Maybe just an aspect. Maybe just a life formula for happiness because someone told me that was the key. 
The thing is, we are all so different. Our life paths are different. So, maybe our own personal formula isn't an exact science for the rest of the world. For example; I was brought up Catholic, but I have a great love for all religions. I also love studying different religions, this fascinates me to no end. I believe in a way of aspects each religion believes. I believe in a single God. But what's true to me, is not universal; past and future lives, Angels, Saints, and so on and so forth. 
What I am trying to say is, I don't take the all or nothing approach to religion. I take what feels right in my heart to be my truth and right for me. I also don't cast aside what I believe doesn't serve me or I don't currently believe in. It very well could in the future. For example, I believe women should have a more active role in the Catholic Church, like being able to become priests. Maybe this is a belief I don't understand as of now. Maybe there's a very good reason why only men are able to become priests. Maybe some day I'll know. Or maybe someday the Catholic Church will adopt my belief. It is what it is. 
This is just one of many personal examples of not following the norm.  So how do you discover where your path begins and someone else's resides? It takes time and fine tuning your heart. 
 Here are some ways to practice. And please take this into account, it's practice and no one and I mean no one on this planet has it 100% right all the time. Not a monk up in the mountains, Oprah or the most emotionally intelligent person on the planet. We are all figuring this out as we go. 
 
 - Mediation: You want answers to become quiet and turn your awareness inside your body. You can sit and focus on your breathing; the inhalation and the exhalation. There are also guided meditations. I have one coming out soon, 28 day mediation for love and better relationships. Side note, people who receive my love letter will receive the meditation for free. Join here if you haven't already. 
 - Journaling: Sounds strange but it works on so many different levels. Write your thoughts down. Get them out of your head and onto paper, or your computer. Check out mind mapping, which can help with stress. 
- Prayer: The more you pray and ask for guidance the more your heart is open to receiving the answers and guidance you need. Remember sometimes the answers to your prayers are not exactly what you were asking for or what you were thinking of. A good rule of thumb when asking for things is to say "for the best and highest good for all. This or something better."  
 
- Heart and Gut Exercises: This could stem from meditation but the idea is to strengthen your heart intuition. Ask yourself, does this feel right? Do I feel good about this? Am I doing this for the right reasons? Years ago, I decided my life would be about love and that everything I would do in life I would do for love. I have to ask myself all the time, "do I love this?" "Am I doing this for love?" If the answer is yes I proceed. If not, I evaluate and ask a few more questions "is this helping me get to something I love?" "Do I need to do this for love?"  If the answer is yes, I proceed; if not, then I leave it. 

This brings up to today's love tip. "Everything in your life, do it for love"

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Peace, Love & Hugs!
Dorothy

Please find the Nantucket Dharma Yoga teacher schedule below, which includes the classes I guide as well as the other teachers.  And if you would like a private session with me which includes any combination relationship coaching, self-love, mediation, healing and yoga, contact me at 508-221-3394 or email me,Dorothy@DorothydStover.com

For class changes and to book your spot, clickhere .

  • Sundays
  • 8:15 am - 9:30 am Dharma Yoga all levels
  • 10:00 am - 11:15 am Restorative Yoga
  • Mondays
  • 8:15 am - 9:30 am Alignment Based Hatha Sheri Perelman
  • 10:00 am - 11:15 am Dharma Yoga all levels Joann Burnham
  • 10:30 am - 11:45 am Aerial Yoga Sheri Perelman
  • 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm All Levels Ted Burnham
  • Tuesdays
  • 7:00 am - 8:00 am Hatha All Levels Dorothy Stover
  • 8:15 am - 9:30 am Dharma Yoga all levels Joann Burnham
  • 10:00 am - 11:15 am Somatic Movement and Stretch Lynne Begier
  • 10:30 am - 11:45 am Aerial Yoga Joann Burnham
  • 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Dharma Yoga all levels Joann Burnham
  • Wednesdays
  • 8:15 am - 9:30 am Alignment Based Hatha Sheri Perelman
  • 10:00 am - 11:15 am Restorative Yoga Sheri Perelman
  • 10:30 am - 11:45 am Aerial Yoga Dorothy Stover
  • 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Hatha All Levels Dorothy Stover
  • Thursdays
  • 7:00 am - 8:00 am Hatha All Levels Dorothy Stover
  • 8:15 am - 9:30 am Dharma Yoga all levels Joann Burnham
  • 10:00 am - 11:15 am Somatic Movement and Stretch Lynne Begier
  • 10:30 am - 11:45 am Aerial Yoga Joann Burnham
  • 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Dharma Yoga all levels Joann Burnham
  • Fridays
  • 8:15 am - 9:30 am Alignment Based Hatha Sheri Perelman
  • 10:00 am - 11:15 am Dharma Yoga all levels Joann Burnham
  • 10:30 am - 11:45 am Restorative Aerial Yoga Sheri Perelman
  • 5:30 pm - 6:45 pm Candlelight Restorative Joann and Ted
  • Saturdays
  •   8:15 am - 9:30 am Dynamic Yoga Lynne Begier
  • 10:00 am - 11:15 am Somatic Movement and Stretch Lynne Begier

We look forward to sharing space with you, Namaste. For class changes and to book your spot, click here .